I have a skirt. It is simple, long, and black. It fits me pretty decently, too, thanks to the miracles of a) choosing the correct size (I rounded up when measurements showed me between options) and b) elasticized waists. It is insanely comfortable and wonderful for my sense of self right now.
In practical terms, crossdressing is not something I'm going to invest heavily in for a while. Losing weight comes first, and cycling through no-longer-fitting clothes is a luxury I won't be able to afford much of. But I am budgeting for a few pieces to practice with in private, and simply for my own morale. (Does it actually affect my voice work or gait practice much? Realistically, in direct tangible terms, no. In terms of my sense of appropriateness and well-being, yes, a lot.)
I presume that all the more experienced trans readers are giving me some combination of "well, duh" and "yes, exactly" looks. :) In any event, it is as fine a first step as I could ask for. I have always loved long skirts, and am very glad to have one of my own.
In practical terms, crossdressing is not something I'm going to invest heavily in for a while. Losing weight comes first, and cycling through no-longer-fitting clothes is a luxury I won't be able to afford much of. But I am budgeting for a few pieces to practice with in private, and simply for my own morale. (Does it actually affect my voice work or gait practice much? Realistically, in direct tangible terms, no. In terms of my sense of appropriateness and well-being, yes, a lot.)
I presume that all the more experienced trans readers are giving me some combination of "well, duh" and "yes, exactly" looks. :) In any event, it is as fine a first step as I could ask for. I have always loved long skirts, and am very glad to have one of my own.
Re: Adventures, or at least adventure, in crossdressing
Date: 2009-06-09 05:56 am (UTC)i actually like long, especially light skirts (and robes/kaftans/djellabas) as well, mostly in summer, because they are great in hot weather -- desert people do know a thing or two about staying cool.
can i just quickly say how annoying i find gendered dress? *gnarg*. but hey, you're transitioning in the right direction for greater choice in dressing. :)
i think dressing the part helps, for morale, and confidence building.
Re: Adventures, or at least adventure, in crossdressing
Date: 2009-06-09 06:10 am (UTC)